was on your side

listened  to what you have to say

helped  you get the sex you needed

provided information and practical assistance to help you have amazing sex

supported you in making informed choices and decisions about your sexuality that you felt comfortable about

helped  you to connect your spirituality to your sexuality

helped you to see casual sex as a therapy rather than an addictive habit 

suggested ways you could connect with men who you you found  intellectually, emotionally and physically attractive

demonstrated techniques that  took your orgasms to a higher level

that was of course, if you had had the bollox to cumm and see him

 Sex is Magick